Eternal Love
There’s something about love that fascinates me. When I feel it in my heart for some person, place or thing, it gives me a feeling of being connected and contentment that is unending. There are times when circumstances change, but love seems to remain. Other things are called love, but real love is pure.
The love that gives me peace is sheer strength. “Love” that is obsessed is strange. I haven’t found anything harder than obsessive love. There’s something about it that isn’t genuine. Maybe it’s called love, but it seems like more of an addiction. There’s never enough in addiction. Mainlining off another person’s energy is not love, it’s sick.
Genuine love gives me a peace of mind that is calm, joyful and balanced. I notice that when I’m sharing genuine love my state of mind is happiness, fulfillment and unconditional support. I don’t ever argue or have a need to be “right” when I dealing in pure love with another person. What they need to do for themselves, I support.
I find that when someone says they love me, but argues with me and tries to break me down, it’s sad. I don’t think the person even knows what they’re doing. It’s just what they know how to do. I’ve been dealing with a situation lately that’s very combative. I don’t intend to go in that direction but it goes that way.
The part that challenges me is that I can see the affect that shows up from it and it’s not good. I feel there is a lesson being worked out here so I’m just staying detached so I can see what I need to do. Something in me needs to change here. I’m looking for what that is. I can see some of the mistakes I’ve made, being naïve about what I was dealing with.
I’m not one to duck out before the lesson is over. Otherwise I end up having to go through it again. Some things are best not repeated. I mention this because I know that I’m not the only one who deals with apparent conflict, whether it’s in a personal or business situation. I’m not sure what created bully behavior. I’m thinking it’s fear-based.
I can really notice the difference between being loved and being bullied because I have people in my life who truly love me. Love isn’t about winning to me. It’s about support, comfort, security, kindness and acceptance. Love strengthens weaknesses. Love gives openly and freely. It’s a childlike honesty.
Blessings!
Laura
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The love that gives me peace is sheer strength. “Love” that is obsessed is strange. I haven’t found anything harder than obsessive love. There’s something about it that isn’t genuine. Maybe it’s called love, but it seems like more of an addiction. There’s never enough in addiction. Mainlining off another person’s energy is not love, it’s sick.
Genuine love gives me a peace of mind that is calm, joyful and balanced. I notice that when I’m sharing genuine love my state of mind is happiness, fulfillment and unconditional support. I don’t ever argue or have a need to be “right” when I dealing in pure love with another person. What they need to do for themselves, I support.
I find that when someone says they love me, but argues with me and tries to break me down, it’s sad. I don’t think the person even knows what they’re doing. It’s just what they know how to do. I’ve been dealing with a situation lately that’s very combative. I don’t intend to go in that direction but it goes that way.
The part that challenges me is that I can see the affect that shows up from it and it’s not good. I feel there is a lesson being worked out here so I’m just staying detached so I can see what I need to do. Something in me needs to change here. I’m looking for what that is. I can see some of the mistakes I’ve made, being naïve about what I was dealing with.
I’m not one to duck out before the lesson is over. Otherwise I end up having to go through it again. Some things are best not repeated. I mention this because I know that I’m not the only one who deals with apparent conflict, whether it’s in a personal or business situation. I’m not sure what created bully behavior. I’m thinking it’s fear-based.
I can really notice the difference between being loved and being bullied because I have people in my life who truly love me. Love isn’t about winning to me. It’s about support, comfort, security, kindness and acceptance. Love strengthens weaknesses. Love gives openly and freely. It’s a childlike honesty.
Blessings!
Laura
LauraCohnMusic.com
If you’d like to subscribe to my weekly newsletter go to:
http://www.LauraCohnMusic.com
Where Music Meets Artistry
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