Mediation

I was certified in basic mediation awhile back with the LA County BAR Association. What I found fascinating about the process of mediation is that it’s really about having a structured conversation rather than determining right or wrong. It’s provides a way for two sides in a situation to come to terms with one another that are mutually agreed upon.

It isn’t even a process that necessarily gives either side what they want. It gives them a way out from being stuck where they no longer want to be. By the time mediation is taking place, both parties have usually had enough of dealing with the dead end grid lock they are in. It provides forward movement where no movement was possible before.

The key to resolving a conflict is to find the underlying motive, the original intention and to differentiate between facts and expectations which can uncover many emotions. Most people who are holding on to their position are still hoping to get what they wanted to get when they first got involved in the situation regardless of what has changed.

Blessings!
Laura

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